When it comes to fashion, everyone has their own sense of it. Due to everyone being different and brave, we have so many different styles today. We have so many patterns, color schemes and even different styles of denim alone.
Fashion is one of my hobbies and I love how inspiring fashion can be to others to create more fashion for our future.
I know some people look at clothes as nothing special but we all wear clothes, obviously, and it is because someone decided to design and make our pants, our hats, and our shirts. Even if your wardrobe isn't full of high fashion pieces, you still picked out clothes that tend to your personality.
I have heard people say that clothes are whatever and nothing special but for others, including myself, clothes is a very big deal. They show how I am feeling and how I decided to express myself that day. I love having lounge wear, active wear, and special occasion clothes for example. I love having clothes for any occasion because no matter where I go, I want to be able to show a little bit of who I am.
Sure, when it comes to just about everything, there are going to be pros and cons. There are going to be clothes that look stunning while on the opposite side, there are going to be some pieces of clothing that look not so great. Either way, someone decided to make those pieces because they knew, somewhere in their hearts that someone, somewhere, would love to wear it.
I have seen children and adults harassed for what they were wearing because others didn't think it was 'acceptable'. I don't think it's cool to harass anyone for any reason because there are so many reasons why people picked the outfit they decided to wear outside of their homes. I know there are many people who can not wear exactly what they want to wear so they make due and buy what they are able to afford. Others wear what they wear because they feel comfortable in that outfit that day. Other wear the outfits that they do because that is their work's dress code. There are many reasons, obviously, as to why people choose the outfits that they do and we should respect whatever makes the person feel more comfortable in their skin.
I know for some it may sound silly to even talk about not harassing people over an outfit but others, including myself, can relate to this. I know I used to get picked on because I was not wearing certain brands or if my shoes looked strange to some people but I wore what I wore because I thought it was cool and that should have been it. Sadly, I did not know how to express that confidence to my former classmates in order for them to stop expressing their hurtful comments about my clothes.
For anyone who feels that their clothes is not enough for them, it currently is enough for you. What other think of your clothes should not matter. So long as you are comfortable in what you are wearing and like what you are wearing, that is all that matters
It is never cool to intend to hurt someone about something that they like even if you did not like it. If they like it, they liked it for some reason. If you want to recommend something you think might look nice on them then approach them about it in a thoughtful way. Just express to them that you have another idea for an outfit and see if they are willing to try it. It is all about making sure we are all comfortable in our skin. We also have to try to prevent any form of harassment and its occurrence should at a minimum. We should not be tolerating any form of harassment anywhere.
Another reason why I wanted to talk about fashion is because it is getting warmer. Wear whatever makes you feel less hot, sexy, and amazing. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do tell you otherwise, walk away from their negatively. Obviously they feel low about whatever may be going on in their lives and they felt tearing you down would make them feel better. Do not give them that satisfaction. Strut.
I will end things here. Everything I say here is merely a suggestion. No matter what I suggest, you can make the final decision in what you think is best for you. Please follow me on TWITTER @midnighthuee and tell me your sense of style.
Smile. Try to do one good deed each day and until next time, Take Care <3
No comments:
Post a Comment